… this guy who is about to get married is actually gay but he’s of course in denial so he’s going to get married shortly and pretend otherwise ..so I’m thinking, do they not think about what that’ll do to the girl if she ever finds out? Just too focused on covering up a part of them that’s never going to go away?

I mean, it wouldn’t bother me at all if I found out my husband was gay, what would bother me is that he lied to me about it and pretended that he wasn’t. I think that if I get involved with a guy (I prefer women, but anything is possible), that I would ask him up front if there is any chance he could or is gay because I would need to know right away.

If he is, I would have no problem acting as his beard if he needed me to until he’s ready to come out, like a good friend would do, but I would want to know this at the beginning before getting emotionally attached to him, ya know? I just don’t get how they can lead the girl on like that knowing they’ll never be attracted to them in the way the world wants.

Maybe I’m making no sense (I am terrible with getting my thoughts down), I just felt like rambling my nonsense to someone I guess.

(Source: barrowman-ilove)